Thursday, September 27, 2007

Lifechurch.tv Launches YouVersion.com Beta


As usual LifeChurch.tv is the pace setter with innovative web content. If there's a cool idea in your heart or mind that you are toying with that is also digitally based you can bet LifeChurch.tv is already moving in that direction.

So what is YouVersion.com Beta? per Church Relevance.com...

LifeChurch.tv (Edmond, OK) officially launched YouVersion Beta today! It is an online bible that lets you:

  • Read the Bible in multiple versions
  • Star and tag verses and content
  • Associate images, videos, links, and text to verses or series of verses
  • Create an online Bible journal
  • And much, much more
This will be the next mode in by which people connect with God's word. It may not be via YouVersion in the end however it will be digital. I'm very excited about checking this out.

As you would suppose you can read more about it here...from the mouth of lifechurch.tv

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Our Service Should be #1?

I must post this... which I found on the Church of the Customer blog here.

However, the real thanks are due to Tom Fishburne's as this is his latest Brand Camp cartoon.


Don't misunderstand me I'm not saying that "your thing" or "my thing" isn't important but come on... people have a life with priorities. I guess it's more about helping others redistribute those time resources or catch a vision of what those priorities could be used to accomplish... Like making disciples of all nations for example :)

Porn Sunday October 7th

Intimacy Part 4: You, Me, and Them

I'm really excited about this next Tuesday... we will be concluding our intimacy series as we discuss the loving others aspect of intimacy. Intimacy: you, me and them

Just as we stated that intimacy in it's purest form is about relationship with God this second horizontal relationship is like the former in that it is essential to making it in our walk with God. Join us as we explore the importance of Seeking, Fostering, and Maintaining Intimacy with Others next Tuesday October 2nd at 7:30pm.

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Porn and the Church

Why is the church NOT talking about Porn?

Honestly, last Sunday was Porn Sunday and for some insane reason most churches in the Northwest GA area didn't even mention it! I'm appalled. I understand that most people in the church like to posture and maintain an image of holiness which does not entail talk of porn from the pulpit but I believe that's so narrow minded. Honestly. Wasn't the church that Paul led a culturally relevant church? Wasn't Jesus interested in reinterpreting or redefining the Pharisees understanding of life and what it meant to follow God? Yea I'm rambling now... the point is this some 80 percent of guys are looking at porn... the newest figures I've seen show that some 45 percent of gals are doing the same... this is a problem that JESUS WOULD ADDRESS. We, being the body of Christ, need to... no, must... address this issue.

For starters journey to the following:

Check out XXXChurch.com
Read up on the Statistics Related to Porn
Here are the church figures Part 1
Here are more church figures Part 2
Margaret Feinberg is doing a Porn Week blog series here.
Journey over to Anne Jackson's blog Flower Dust
Check out Mountian Lake Church's recent series myscandalust.com

*******UPDATE TO POST***********
Apparently I was wrong in one respect :)

Porn Sunday is October 7th so maybe there is hope for the churches in this area. Let's get the word out!

Thanks Anne.
www.pornsunday.com

Gas Station 1: Church 0

Great post from Ben Arment on his blog History in the Making that you must read.

Essentially Ben tells a story of stopping by the gas station on the way home from work only to find droves of young adults hanging out. Apparently this steroid variety gas station... you know the ones with a cafe, etc that is more likened to a grocery store or dollar general?... at any rate as he stopped for gas he realized drove of young adults. I guess some quick gas station entrepreneur realized they could sell a lot of beer and such by having some live music on the scene.

This story is tragic. Why?

Because the church stinks at getting young adults in the door. I'm experiencing this first hand in many respects and the recent study from Lifeway echoes this point as they report some 80% leaving the church in droves during their twenties.

What are we missing? perhaps it has to do with my Shark Post? What do you guys think?

Read Ben's Post here.

Monday, September 24, 2007

Intimacy Series

A girl that comes to One sent me a link to a video that has been very powerful in my life. Let me say that it doesn't follow my worship style and seems a bit old school at first, but the content of the skit well makes up for those preferences I hold. You must watch this... thanks Mary.



I am moved.

Sunday, September 23, 2007

Rock Bridge Community Church: 2 Locations

Matt Evans, pastor of RBCC, announced on his blog today that the launch of Rock Bridge Calhoun was successful. Matt and his staff are doing awesome things in Dalton and have now expanded the scope of their ministry to include Calhoun and Gordon County.

The launch included some 300 in attendance. Good job Calhoun Team!

You can read more about the launch on Matt's blog.

Shark Fishing?

Vince Antonucci had a great post on his blog this week about shark fishing. Let me explain he addresses the question of churches/ministries that are attempting to reach lost people... or so they say. The programs, style of worship, teaching, etc are all so modern ... or so they think.

You can catch one of these....


Or you can catch one of these...

But you aren't gonna catch them with the same bait or in the same location...

Go read the post then return here.

Ok you've read it. Time for some questions... Is your community of faith using the right bait? Are you fishing in the right water? Let's be honest who are we reaching?

I must admit I find this discussion troubling... I'm not ready to jump ship here (would probably be safe however based on my assumption of what's in the water) but when I look around what we hope to do and what we at Matthew's Table are actually doing (catching?) leaves room for growth....

Where do you think we are in this regard?

Friday, September 21, 2007

Lessons Learned from Listening to God

Joylene's doing a series of posts about listening to God on her blog that is well worth reading.

check them out here.

Thursday, September 20, 2007

How Great is Our God

God is doing some incredible things in our community of faith right now! I've been so encouraged by what I'm hearing from people as to the impact our current series is having on their lives. God is great!

God is good!

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Intimacy Part 3: Real Intimacy Round Up

I felt like God really spoke to us tonight!

We discussed Real Intimacy, which in its purest form is intimacy with God. We will not find real intimacy, pure intimacy, in relationships with others... only in relationship with God. We took our part one definition or components of intimacy and discussed what those might look like as we journey with God.

  1. Relationship and Connectedness-- We talked about every relationship having a starting point and that there needs to be some type of on going maintenance for that relationship to stay healthy. Practically I stated that there's no one right way to "get together" with God. I encouraged the crowd, as I do you, to mix it up and to ask around to see what others do to connect regularly with God.
  2. Authenticity and Openness- I talked about how a lot of us aren't real with God. We think we must put on a mask or exterior in order to converse/walk with God. NOT SO! I encouraged you guys to take off those masks and begin to have a real discussion with God about those things that aren't picture perfect in your life and mind. God's big enough to handle it!
  3. Trust and Safety- I spoke about those places in our lives that prevent us from trusting God. Those things that shape our feeling that God's not safe. It's ok to be here and on some level we all experience this trust and safety issue. However, we went further and explored the difference between provision and what we want.... there's a difference you know. We talked about the temporal and how it clouds our understanding of God's goodness, God's safety. I encouraged you guys to move through these components of Intimacy with God and to identify where you are in each component.
  4. Being Fully Known and Fully Accepted- Sadly we will never fully reach being fully known or fully accepted by others... only in relationship with God are these core needs met. I encouraged each of you, as I do you the reader, to set your issues aside: the addictions, patterns of living that hinder relationship with God, and to place all your junk to the side and bask/bathe in the acceptance and love of God! What is greater than being fully known and fully accepted in God!

Join us on October 2nd as we dive into Intimacy: You, Me, and Them!

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Excited about One Tonight!

I'm really excited about One tonight! I believe God is going to communicate some incredible truths to people tonight in a freeing and life giving way. Just to name a few themes:

Authenticity
Being Fully Known
Acceptance

I'm the most stoked about acceptance. I really think we are going to get this on an emotional, spiritual and relational level tonight. Wow how cool would that be! We've journeyed down into the depths of our hang ups, our addictions, and those illegitimate ways in which we get our legitimate needs met (False-Intimacy) and tonight we will embrace REAL INTIMACY!

See you tonight! Bring that friend of yours!

Monday, September 17, 2007

Shout Out # 8

Post number 8 in the shout out series where I'm thanking those that make Matthew's Table and One what it is...

Laura Lynn Treadwell- She's a ready and willing kind of girl that does a bit of everything. She helped with set up in the early days of One and has since taken over as our Set up Team Coordinator: enlisting volunteers, organizing the process, and generally making sure things get down twice a month. But there's more... she also helps Ray with the Tech Team and has often run Pro Presenter--managing the video and teaching slides from the back of the room. Laura Lynn we appreciate you very much! I'm so thankful we have people like you who will step up and get the job done... plugging in wherever needed and taking ownership of that assigned area! You rock!

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Intimacy Part 3: Real Intimacy

This Tuesday night in downtown Dalton we will be cranking up another One as we discuss Real Intimacy. Join us around 7:30pm ... Child Care provided... Starbucks Coffee Free... Community.

High School Football, Punk Music and Jam Bands

This has been an eclectic weekend to say that least. Friday night was comprised of eating Greek food with Alfred, Heidi and Sara. We had Kabobs and pitas.... mmmm good stuff. I then jetted over to watch Dalton High School win over Hiram High 34-21 in a comeback effort. I love High School football!

Now for the eclectic part... last night Joylene and I ventured over to the Venue in Dalton GA to see a friends band play, Vengeance 77, which was sort of a punk/metal thing going on in the sound. The Venue is a cool environment in that there's definitely a punk scene and they have some decent bands in from Atlanta and the surrounding area, however there were only about 50-70 people there for the opener (Vengeance 77).

We left around 8:30 to see another friend Jeremy Robinson's band, Filament, play at the Depot (they opened also). Jeremy's sound was smooth and sweet with a few good bar covers such as Bob Marley and others. We stayed around until almost 11:30 as there was a really good cover band following... local flavor.

Great date... fun weekend... very relaxing.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

Perry Noble on Creativity

Perry Noble has a great post titled "Where Do You Get Your Creative Ideas From?" it's nothing mind blowing or new but he notes about five areas where this occurs:

  • #1 - My quiet time
  • #2 - The creative team
  • #3 - Listening to/watching other speakers.
  • #4 - Be a student of culture.
  • #5 - Time off

Great list. I resonate with number 2 a lot and will say that for me the team at Matthew's Table serves as an empowering and life giving creative spark. Number 4 is also huge in my creative process. I'm a music, magazine, movie, and book junky and in that way I learn a lot about people and God, which in turn gives me a creative spark.

However, the place where I receive the most creative spark, my pool of creativity if you will, which is not found on Perry's list, is that of conversing and thinking with young adults over coffee or lunch. It's during those times of being real and hanging out that God speaks, ever so silently, but he speaks. Those words are often encouragement to move forward with a series, a topic, or to pursue an idea. Actually, it's when God begins to layer an idea or a concept through multiple interactions that I begin to get the creative spark. I love it when that happens!

What sparks creativity in your life?

Joylene on Running to God

There's an incredible image on Joylene's blog... it's just below... and it's of our dog... however that's not what's incredible about it. What I dig is the fact that Joylene placed a caption of sorts under it ... "Running to God". How appropriate! We ought to be running to God like that... I commented that the amazing thing is that God is chasing us in that same reckless, loving spirit. Wow.

You can check it out on her blog here.


Shout Out #7

Part 7 of the Shout Out Series where we thank those that make One and Matthew's Table happen...

Francis Francia- Francis is the most genuine, god loving, merciful individual I've ever come across. He will shutter at these words. I don't mind though because he needs to be recognized for his service. Francis does the little things that others don't and wouldn't... he does so gladly... often before I ask. He picks up the Starbucks Coffee each Tuesday before One so thank him! He prays for countless people associated with One and Matthew's Table. Francis is a worker and a doer. Francis is a friend among friends. He understands what it means to serve God and love others.... something so few have understood. Thanks for all you do man!

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Matt Evans: 5 Year Thoughts

Rock Bridge Community Church in Dalton GA turns five years old this week!

For those that don't know the story Rock Bridge has grown from a group of 30 or so to a thriving Kingdom minded ministry of some 1500 in attendance over the last five years. Matt Evans the lead pastor of Rock Bridge had an inspiring post today about what he termed 5 year Thoughts... here's a sampling of my favorites...

  • >I had no idea what spiritual warfare was 5 years ago.
  • >Prayer is the Christian and the church’s greatest weapon.
  • >Vision is the glue that holds a church together.
  • >When vision is strong … AMAZING … Acts 2 type stuff starts happening.
  • >My need to spend time in prayer has INCREASED dramatically over the past 5 years.

You can get the rest of his insights here.

If Matt's not on your radar he should be because the guy can lead! He sweats vision and proclaims God's truth in a clear, accessible, relational manner. Check out his blog here.

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Shout Out #6

Part 6 of the Shout Out Series... giving thanks were thanks is due...

Kristy White- Kristy has provided so much energy, excitement, and focus within the connection team ministry. I can now remember back to last January and February (pre-launch of One) and there was a core of guys and gals that got together and prayed like crazy to make One happen. Kristy was among that group in the early days. She led out on the setup team taking care of organizing groups of people to help over and over, she found volunteers to work as greeters, connection table staff, and did a great job. Heck she even bought cookies once to go with our coffee (which if it were up to her would be replaced by snow cones!). Thank you Kristy .... I and we appreciate your work with Matthew's Table and One!

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

HALO 3 and Young Adult Ministry

There's an incredibly helpful article on Kem Meyer's blog Less Clutter that deals with being too familiar. More particularly she discusses an article from Wired Magazine that deals with the game developers from Halo 3 and how they go/went about the process of development... consider the following...

I tuned into how they stepped outside their own bubble to watch people respond to their game ... uncensored ... unbiased ... real time.
I'm not going to rehash the entire article here as you can read the original from Wired above and Kem's here. Kem provides what she calls ministry take aways of which there are three:
  • I'm reminded to create space to watch people experience our creations.
  • I'm reminded to step back and look around at all the activities around the church and take the time to attend events that aren't usually on my radar.
  • I'm reminded to watch our numbers to find things that are growing and things that are dying (or broke).
Good stuff for sure and important to remember.

Any thoughts?

Shout Out #5

Part 5 of my shout out series where I thank those that make Matthew's Table and One go...

Ray Owens- He keeps our sound and tech help going in the back of the room. If the sound works when I talk.... if Simple Fool sounds good... if that video loads... you get the idea... we have Ray to thank! Ray is a Godly man... Ray loves people well... Ray has been in the ministry longer than any of us... Ray hears God. Ray is also in a support raising mode himself through Family Discipleship Ministries. FDM puts on Breakaway, which is a retreat for young adults and FDM friends. Ray is also affiliated with Oasis in Dalton, GA which connects youth groups to God through a three day event called Oasis (they have like 900 kids). Ray is generous... loving... and Kingdom minded.

Monday, September 10, 2007

Friend Raising before Fundraising

Great post a while back on Church of the Customer blog titled Friend Raising before Fundraising. The post deals with the way of death for the traditional fundraising via street team and points toward the importance of using social networking on the web as a means to first raise friends and then funds.

Social networks work for cause-driven organizations because they focus on friendraising before fundraising. They create the necessary social capital that makes raising budgetary capital more efficient, eliminating the need for street teams, cold-calling or mass-market appeals.
Sounds mundane but it's not. Actually it's powerful stuff in that quote. Social Networks when utilized effectively are powerful. Spam is bad as Church of the Customer put it...
The collateral pollution of spammers, scammers and phishers who disguise nefarious intentions to steal your money are turning street-team awareness-generators or money collectors into dinosaurs.
Where does this leave us? I believe it moves us toward what Seth Godin and others refer to as permission based marketing. At the same time it's really nothing new... the importance of building a relationship in sales is no new phenom. Well let's go make some friends!

You can catch the entire post here.

What do you guys think?

Shout Out #4

Part four of our shout out to those that make Matthew's Table and One happen...

Alfred Turley
- He's the guy that provides so much to the ministry behind the scenes! Honestly, Alfred is my go to guy when I'm discouraged, when I need to vent, and when I need someone to pray for me! Alfred is a trustworthy friend that can be counted on when times good or you are in the midst of a struggle. Alfred is a manager, a prayer warrior, a gentle spirit, and a lover of Jesus. He's done some MC'ing for us over the last 9 months, he's on the board of directors for MT, and he's mad crazy about his low carb diet :)

Sunday, September 9, 2007

Communications vs. Content Based Internet

I stumbled over the following figures on Church Marketing Sucks blog a while back and thought they were worth commenting on... first the figures.

Ars Technia reports on a new study on the focus of individuals' time on the Internet. Here's what

they found of people's time online:
In 2003:

  • 34% of Internet users' time was spent reading content.
  • 46% of their time was spent on online communications.

And today:

  • 47% of their time was spent reading content.
  • 33% of Internet users' time was spent on online communications.
These numbers almost completely reversed in four years.


What does this mean for the church? Well I'm no genius but I'm guessing it means more churches, church leaders, pastors and others associated with ministry should be blogging and connecting with content via the Internet. Social Networking is obviously a huge part of our net experience, however these figure point toward an obvious shift. Perhaps a hunger for content... or is it connection with depth. I wonder if it's the search for content within the context of social networking, which is to say we are creating online content based communities where real networking and social interaction (communication) takes place.

I digress. These figures obviously also mean that people are turning from books and toward the Internet (wiki etc) for information gathering. Problem is that at the current time the quality of content you "stumble upon" on the Internet is iffy at best. This leads me to believe that what is needed is a informing or quality assurance mechanism whereby the various content is organized into levels of authority. This naturally happening within the blogging world and on Technorati etc. However, very few are aware of Technorati and other such vehicles to find authoritative and "good" content.

I've strayed from my original thought. What does all this mean for the church? Or better yet what should it mean? At face value it means we need to be providing quality authoritative content for the Internet. Thus more churches need to begin the conversation of Christ and Culture on the web platform. It's a missional issue in many respects for they that maintain a build it and they will come mentality have missed Christ's call to be missional. Of course being missional is much more than creating web content.... but it's a start and the numbers point toward an increased hunger for content based info on the web.

Any thoughts or did I lose you?

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Saturday, September 8, 2007

Photoshop?


I found this on Margaret Feinberg's blog.... go here.

Is Community Broken?

Joylene has been writing and thinking about community and such over the past few months particularly and she has unleashed several posts on her blog questioning Is Community Broken? She's not the only one in this conversation as I myself sense an alienation and isolation that is not merely occurring but has already occurred. Perhaps I'll do my own series on this subject soon...

For now jet over to Joylene's Blog and read the following posts to get your mind going... She knows more about the subject than do I anyway :)

Is Community Broken?

More on Community as Broken

Shout Out #3

Shout Out part 3... a thank you to all those that make MT and One go!

Jared Owens, Aaron Simpson, Greta Owens- Simple Fool minus Jeremy Owens from Shout Out #1. I know that they pray through the set list each service. I know they have a heart for providing an environment of worship and connection. I know they love Jesus! Jared also works with our web team. Aaron loves to eat and likes football... the guy burns carpet for a living (the doors a chemistry degree will open for you). Greta is a host par-excellence and one of the best mothers I've ever seen... her voice is like an angel.

We at Matthew's Table and more clearly our connection point One would not and could not go without Simple Fool. It's really that simple (no pun intended). Thank you Jared, Aaron, and Greta for all of your hard work.

Vision and Being Risk Adverse

Ben Arment has a honest and truthful post on his blog History in the Making that got a giggle out of me this morning. His point is that having vision means things are difficult for any leader, but on the other hand not having a vision you are pushing makes things easy. How true! People naturally resist change and this is not some new news... Just go read Leading Change or most any Maxwell book on leadership. This places the leader of any organization or what have you in a precarious position. One can leave the boat alone and allow things to go to crap or one can rock the proverbial boat in an effort to move others toward change, life giving change, and in the process piss a lot of people off. Hmmm.

Ben concludes with this comment,

Vision is the most powerful tool in the church outside of the Holy Spirit. It moves people toward what is right, what is biblical, what God wants for our lives. But the very nature of vision puts a big ol' bull's eye on the leader's chest.
So true...

You can read the entire post here.

Shout Out #2

Part 2 of the shout out series where I'm taking some blog time to thank volunteers and leaders of MT and One.

Joylene Green- She's the one that listens to me through the ups and downs of ministry. She's my backbone when I don't have one. She's awesome! She's taking over our Community Group Director position, thus she will be training, connecting, and growing our small group ministry. She's also a Marriage and Family Therapist. She and I are married. She's very gifted.

Friday, September 7, 2007

Seth Godin on Being Generous

Great thought/question from marketing guru Seth Godin,

If you didn't want anything in return, nothing at all, what's the most generous thing you could do for your best customer, your best friend, your most important prospect?

Give it a try.

If I was forced to answer I guess I would say... to sit and listen... to sit and give... to sit and do whatever that person really needed/wanted.

You can check out his blog here.

What would you say?

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Shout Out #1

I want to give a shout to all those that have been making One happen this fall and plan to do so over the next week or so...

1. Jeremy Owens- He's the guy that makes the PowerPoint and service prep go! We have him to thank for our logos, our posters, our mini-invites, etc. He's doing an awesome job in spite of his demanding full-time job with Rock Bridge Community Church and working part time with Christian Heritage School. Jeremy loves God. Jeremy has a heart for ministry. Jeremy is a big part of Matthew's Table.

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

ONE: Intimacy Part 2 Recap

Wow. I wasn't prepared for the impact last nights message would have in my own heart. I came down from the stage feeling insecure, inadequate, and unlovable.

Here's what went down in the message itself.

  • We talked about the fact that Culture is Selling Us a lame and false version of real intimacy.
  • False Intimacy
  • We defined False Intimacy as using people/activities/things etc to meet our legitimate needs illegitimately.
  • We broke that down a bit explaining that we all have legitimate needs such as being loved, being appreciated, being heard, being touched, and feeling a important or being valued by others.
  • The illegitimate ways in which we meet those needs can range from porn addictions, sexual experiences, self-medication (drugs/alcohol abuse etc) to things such as using work, church, etc in unhealthy ways to "get our fix".
  • I then told my story to illustrate the destructive nature of embracing false-intimacy.
  • We then got personal as I asked everyone to have a conversation with God and themselves about what illegitimate things were fostering false-intimacy in our lives.
There was a profound silence as I came off the stage and Simple Fool began with an acoustic set that was way mellow for those guys. The elephant in the room had been spoken of.... and I felt empty, exposed, and insecure.

God worked in our midst. Today I've received calls, emails, and messages about what God is doing in our lives. Praise God!

Don't miss September 18th's message Real Intimacy as we explore what real intimacy is all about!

Monday, September 3, 2007

Guys Night Out: FSU Game

I'm getting together with my guys community group tonight for a time of hanging out... getting real... and some football of course.

There's really nothing like 12 or so guys eating pizza,, getting real in an open and authentic way with each other and then watching a game together. If you aren't involved in a group yourself... guy or gal... you're missing out big time.

Get in touch with Joylene, our Community Group Director, to get plugged in asap. You can get her email here.

Gearing Up for One

I've been spending the day gearing up for the message tomorrow at One! I'm excited and humbled all together... it's hard to speak on topics that you've struggled with yourself.

We'll be starting things just after 7:30pm in down town Dalton.

I'll be speaking to the subject of False-Intimacy. Things should get real... very real.

See you then.